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Preparing For Residence
The best support that parents can provide when students are preparing for Residence at UCH is pointing students to resources. In preparing for living in Residence, encourage conversations with your student about expectations, support, etc. Do your own research about what is available to your student and for you as a parent as well!
Tips and suggestions:
- Discuss expectations about communications. How often will you call? How often will your student write? What is too much? What is too little?
- Encourage your student to become involved in Residence and community life.
- Be supportive of change and independence.
- Be a coach, rather than a rescuer. Encourage your student to use the resources available at TRU & UCH. Learn what the academic and personal support services are and help point them in the right direction if they have questions or concerns.
Suggested reading:
- Letting Go: A Parent’s Guide to Today’s College Experience , Karen Levin Coburn & Madge Lawrence Treeger (Harper Collins, 1997)
- You're On Your Own (But I'm Here If You Need Me): Mentoring Your Child During the College Years by Marjorie Savage
- Letting Go and Staying Connected: For parents of first year studentshttp://www.georgianc.on.ca/residence/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/letting-go-staying-connected.pdf
- Tie young adults to parents - article
- Overpraised '80s kids - article
- Parents should guide - article

